The Self-Love Survival Kit: What Every Woman Needs When the World Gets Loud
Sis, if it feels like the world is doing the absolute most right now, you’re not imagining it.
Our rights are being chipped away. The news cycle is a mess. Social media is a dumpster fire of body critiques, political chaos, and unsolicited opinions on what women should or shouldn’t be doing with their lives. And somewhere between Roe v. Wade and TikTok wellness trends, you're supposed to thrive?
Let’s be for real.
That’s why every woman needs a Self-Love Survival Kit. This is your personal collection of things that keep you grounded, glowing, and feeling like that girl, even when the world is screaming. Think of it like emotional armor...but sexy. Here’s what to keep in your kit when everything feels like too much…
That’s Not Feminism. That’s Control.
Somewhere along the way, parts of the internet decided that feminism means covering up, toning down, and sitting pretty in a box labeled “respectable.” And nah, we’re not doing that. We didn’t come this far just to come this far. We aren’t just to trading in one set of rules for another.
The latest example? Sabrina Carpenter’s album cover. Baby girl is out here in full goddess mode: body on soft, pose on power, giving us submissive in her power, strong, and fun all at the same damn time. And yet, folks have the nerve to say she was “doing it for the male gaze” and “setting women back.”
Boudoir Is More Than Sexy;It’s a Revolution- Nc Boudoir Photography
Let’s be real, boudoir looks sexy. The lace, the poses, the lighting, the curves, the champagne. It’s easy to assume it’s all about the aesthetic. But if you’ve ever been in front of my camera, you already know the truth:
Boudoir is more than sexy, it’s a spiritual rebellion. It’s a radical act of coming home to yourself.
In a world that teaches women to shrink, hide, conform, and constantly question our worth, standing in your skin, unfiltered, unashamed, and fully present, is nothing short of revolutionary.
boudoir isn’t a one time experience. period.- NC Boudoir Photography
But here’s the thing no one talks about enough: boudoir IS NOT a one-time experience. It’s not a “check it off your self-love to-do list and never do it again” moment. Boudoir is a journey, and like any journey, you grow. You change. You come back to it with new energy, new stories, new reasons to celebrate your body and your evolution.
And that’s why coming back for another session isn’t extra, it’s essential.
You’re Not Asking for too much, You’re Asking the wrong…- NC Boudoir Photography
Muthaaa Fuckaaa! I love those amazing lyrics from “To Me”- by Alina Baraz. When you realize that not everyone is for you, your heart can begin to confidently open itself to others, without fear of getting hurt! You’re Not Too Much, You’re Just Not for Everyone (and That’s Okay). Let’s get this out of the way: If anyone has ever called you “too much,” they were probably just too small for your kind of magic. And honestly? That’s a them problem.
Emotionally Ready vs. Physically Ready for Your Boudoir Session: Here's What Really Matters
A boudoir session isn’t about trying to hide or “fix” anything about you. It’s about showing up, just as you are, and saying, “I am enough.” And look, I know that’s easier said than done. We’re all our own worst critics. But I promise, once you start leaning into that self-love, you’ll feel unstoppable.
The Power of Invisibility: Embracing aging and growth-Self Acceptance in Boudoir Photography Raleigh nc
“Now is the time to become a myth.”
— Diane Von Furstenberg
There’s a certain magic that happens when a woman ages. It’s subtle, almost sneaky, but undeniable. It’s a feeling of being less visible—at first it feels like you’re being forgotten but one day it hits you, being “invisible” isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Something about being overlooked is liberating and powerful. As if all the societal expectations, all the gazes that once measured your worth by your youth, start to fade even though your beauty is still omnipresent. And in that fading, there’s freedom.
Finding Your Perfect Match: How to Safely Choose a Reputable Boudoir Photographer-self love Couples boudoir- raleigh nc
Usually my blogs are full of light and excitement, but with the recent news coming out of Texas about a woman being sexually assaulted during her boudoir session, I feel like it’s insanely important to talk about why safety is first, even over your budget!
Self Love & Body Positivity: How To Love YOURSelf Unapologetically-Self Love Boudoir- Raleigh NC
It’s time to start loving yourself unapologetically. As a woman, self-love and body positivity are essential for our mental, physical, and emotional well-being. So how do we go about developing a positive relationship with ourselves and our bodies? In this blog post, we’ll explore the importance of self-love and body positivity and provide tips to help you learn to love yourself unapologetically. Self-love and body positivity are powerful tools that can have a positive impact on your life. So, let's get started!
There is an old cliche under your Monet, baby Remember the arch of roses right above your couch?- Self Love Boudoir- Nine19 Photography RALEIGH NC
At every session I give clients a rundown of whats about to happen. One of the things I always say is to not worry about laughing during the session because laughter is sexy too! Besides, getting half way naked in front of someone who is essentially a stranger while they snap portraits of you can feel awkward at first, so I would rather you laugh through your session than to force vixen face, when its not needed!
I Can See it In Your Eyes, I Can Tell You're Wanting More- A Tall Cup of Bubbles Boudoir Nine19 Photography Studio- Raleigh NC
I’m just not really sure, that you all are ready for this blog… This woman, is a 6ft absolute stunner with a personality that shines brighter than these portraits. A total package of drama kid meets super model, this curvy beauty put on a pair of red bottoms and made magic in my studio living room in Raleigh NC! I’ve never seen someone flip a switch to sexy so easily, it was like as soon as I lifted my camera, she knew what was up! As soon as I dropped the camera, she was every woman, full of fun, laughter, and bubbles. SHE IS GOALS, enough said. Hold on to your seats, hunnies, this woman is about to take you for a full ride through “YESSSSville”!