boudoir isn’t a one time experience. period.- NC Boudoir Photography
But here’s the thing no one talks about enough: boudoir IS NOT a one-time experience. It’s not a “check it off your self-love to-do list and never do it again” moment. Boudoir is a journey, and like any journey, you grow. You change. You come back to it with new energy, new stories, new reasons to celebrate your body and your evolution.
And that’s why coming back for another session isn’t extra, it’s essential.
Confidence Isn’t Loud, It’s Consistent- Nc Boudoir Photography
Truth is, confidence doesn’t always look like your physical attributes or walking into the room like you own it (although hell yes do that!). Often times, confidence looks like showing up for yourself in little ways, especially when no one’s watching.
It’s getting dressed and saying “you’re doing great” to your reflection, even if yesterday was a mess. It’s choosing clothes that feel like you, not what others expect you to wear (We talk about this in our Sustainable Confidence series with My Thrift Fix).
It’s eating when you're hungry, resting when you’re tired, and saying no without over-explaining and not feeling guilty.
You’re Not Asking for too much, You’re Asking the wrong…- NC Boudoir Photography
Muthaaa Fuckaaa! I love those amazing lyrics from “To Me”- by Alina Baraz. When you realize that not everyone is for you, your heart can begin to confidently open itself to others, without fear of getting hurt! You’re Not Too Much, You’re Just Not for Everyone (and That’s Okay). Let’s get this out of the way: If anyone has ever called you “too much,” they were probably just too small for your kind of magic. And honestly? That’s a them problem.
The Art of Neutrality: How to Shift Negative Self-Talk Without Forcing Positivity- boudoir photography nc
Neutrality is about finding a middle ground between negativity and forced optimism. It gives you space to be realistic while allowing room for growth, without pressuring yourself into feeling aggressive positivity. By embracing neutrality, you acknowledge your current emotions and circumstances without judgment, making it easier to navigate challenges without becoming overwhelmed. Instead of feeling like you must immediately adopt a positive mindset, you give yourself permission to move at a pace that feels natural. This approach fosters self-compassion and resilience, as it allows for gradual progress without the fear of failure or self-criticism.
Emotionally Ready vs. Physically Ready for Your Boudoir Session: Here's What Really Matters
A boudoir session isn’t about trying to hide or “fix” anything about you. It’s about showing up, just as you are, and saying, “I am enough.” And look, I know that’s easier said than done. We’re all our own worst critics. But I promise, once you start leaning into that self-love, you’ll feel unstoppable.
The Power of Invisibility: Embracing aging and growth-Self Acceptance in Boudoir Photography Raleigh nc
“Now is the time to become a myth.”
— Diane Von Furstenberg
There’s a certain magic that happens when a woman ages. It’s subtle, almost sneaky, but undeniable. It’s a feeling of being less visible—at first it feels like you’re being forgotten but one day it hits you, being “invisible” isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Something about being overlooked is liberating and powerful. As if all the societal expectations, all the gazes that once measured your worth by your youth, start to fade even though your beauty is still omnipresent. And in that fading, there’s freedom.
Capturing Intimacy: The Art of Couples Boudoir Photography in Raleigh NC
Get ready for your blood pressure to rise because today, we're diving into the sexy world of couples boudoir photography! I'm so excited to share with you all the magic and romance that goes into capturing those oh-so-intimate moments between you and your sweetheart.
Dare to Be Different: Celebrating Beauty Through Boudoir Photography in Raleigh, NC
I think it’s important to dive into something that's been bouncing around in my mind: the essence of beauty and why it truly resides in our individualism.
In a world that often seems obsessed with conformity and fitting into certain molds, it’s easy to forget just how breathtakingly unique each and every one of us is. As a boudoir photographer here in Raleigh, NC, I have the incredible privilege of capturing that individuality, that raw authenticity, through my lens.
Finding Your Perfect Match: How to Safely Choose a Reputable Boudoir Photographer-self love Couples boudoir- raleigh nc
Usually my blogs are full of light and excitement, but with the recent news coming out of Texas about a woman being sexually assaulted during her boudoir session, I feel like it’s insanely important to talk about why safety is first, even over your budget!
Self Love & Body Positivity: How To Love YOURSelf Unapologetically-Self Love Boudoir- Raleigh NC
It’s time to start loving yourself unapologetically. As a woman, self-love and body positivity are essential for our mental, physical, and emotional well-being. So how do we go about developing a positive relationship with ourselves and our bodies? In this blog post, we’ll explore the importance of self-love and body positivity and provide tips to help you learn to love yourself unapologetically. Self-love and body positivity are powerful tools that can have a positive impact on your life. So, let's get started!
One time for the birthday chick, Go ahead if it's your birthday chick- Birthday Boudoir- Nine19 Photography Raleigh NC
Birthdays are always my favorite! I unapologetically force my friends to celebrate me for the entire month of August, because IM WORTH IT, okaaaay! Well, you’re worth it too! I love it when clients come to me to celebrate their bdays with a boudoir session! We party together and capture some amazing shots!
I feel so blessed to be looking at you'Cause when you open your eyesI feel alive- Maternity Couples Boudoir- nine19 photography Raleigh NC
Clients are always trying to figure out a wonderful way to celebrate their pregnancy! I personally believe that maternity boudoir is a great way to love on yourself and your bump! Your body goes through such a change, one that you may only experience once, so why not capture it in all of its perfection? Maybe even take it up a notch and invite your partner to join!
Cause you were a dream That you should not have been a fantasy real- Boudoir Portraits- Nine19 PhotogrAPHY RALEIGH NC
Sometimes, its fun to book a boudoir session to celebrate something wonderful happening in your life. It’s even better when that thing is purely for you! Clients will book for weddings or a partner’s birthday, but why not book for your birthday or to capture your body in a moment where you worked hard to achieve the look that you currently have? This client had been working on her fitness for show and it SHOWED! She put in work and represented for the petite ladies!
Peace and blessings manifest with every lesson learned- Empowerment Boudoir- Nine19 Photography Raleigh NC
There is something to be said about being unapologetically yourself! Showing up open, vulnerable, and as you are is so important to boudoir. If you can show up as an honest version of you, then you can reach a level of self love that you never imagined in such a short period of time. Of course this can be scary, but you have to trust yourself, your instincts, and the person you have chosen to guide you on your boudoir journey!
There is an old cliche under your Monet, baby Remember the arch of roses right above your couch?- Self Love Boudoir- Nine19 Photography RALEIGH NC
At every session I give clients a rundown of whats about to happen. One of the things I always say is to not worry about laughing during the session because laughter is sexy too! Besides, getting half way naked in front of someone who is essentially a stranger while they snap portraits of you can feel awkward at first, so I would rather you laugh through your session than to force vixen face, when its not needed!
You Want Me, I Want You, Baby- Luxury Boudoir Pop Up- Vintage Penthouse- Nine19 Photography Durham NC
The boudoir experience is so much about self-love and self-investment, that we really wanted to level up and create a luxurious experience. Enter our first ever Luxury Boudoir Pop Up. For this all day event, we really took our time and spoiled our two ladies who booked. Today’s blog post features one of these beauties who was kind enough to share some words about her experience.
