Beyond Healing Trauma-Boudoir and Life Coaching Can Help You Reclaim Joy-NC Boudoir
You’re allowed to feel good again.
Section 4 of the Love You Louder journal is about Claiming Joy, and yes, I chose that word on purpose. Too many women don’t just want joy... they’re waiting for someone to give them permission to have it.
And that’s literally not how joy works.
Joy isn’t something you have to earn through perfection or productivity. It’s not even a reward. It’s a radical act of resistance. In a world that constantly tries to steal your light, joy becomes a reclamation.
Loving the surface and the soul
If you’ve been looking for reasons to celebrate your body as it is now, or trying to reconnect with your sensuality, this is your sign: it’s okay to love the surface.
In Section 3 of the Love You Louder journal, we move out of the internal deep-diving and into the sensual, the visible, the everyday. Because loving yourself isn’t just about digging into your past or rewriting trauma. Sometimes it’s as simple and radical as looking in the mirror and saying, “Damn. I look good today.”
Let’s say it together: there’s nothing shallow about self-admiration.
Boudoir Requires Radical Acceptance - NOT Perfection
As women, especially since 2016, many of us have been holding grief, rage, fear, and exhaustion in our nervous systems and still getting up every day to perform wellness, perform safety, perform okay-ness.
For a boudoir experience that celebrates your truth radical self-acceptance is the real foundation of it all.
Section 2 of the Love You Louder journal is dedicated to this exact truth: you cannot fake love for yourself. You can only meet yourself where you are, and choose not to flinch when you do.
Sounds cute in theory. In practice? It’s raw as hell.
Because radical acceptance means looking at the parts of yourself you’ve been trying to ignore and saying, “Yep. That’s me too.”