Boudoir and self-love begin with letting go: the power of Undoing
As women, especially since 2016, many of us have been holding grief, rage, fear, and exhaustion in our nervous systems and still getting up every day to perform wellness, perform safety, perform okay-ness.
But survival mode is not your natural state. And when we finally put that mask down? Whew Girl! The grief underneath can feel like a tidal wave. I’ve seen it in my studio. I’ve heard it in coaching sessions. I’ve felt it in my own bones.
That’s why Section 1 in the Love You Louder journal asks you to name what you're carrying, and what you're ready to drop.
The journal includes a Self-Love Baseline audit. It’s a no-BS look at how you talk to yourself, what beliefs you’re still gripping to, and what wounds still whisper “you’re not enough.” We ask ourselves:
What did I once believe that no longer serves me?
Where am I performing instead of feeling?
What have I outgrown?
Boudoir Is More Than Sexy;It’s a Revolution- Nc Boudoir Photography
Let’s be real, boudoir looks sexy. The lace, the poses, the lighting, the curves, the champagne. It’s easy to assume it’s all about the aesthetic. But if you’ve ever been in front of my camera, you already know the truth:
Boudoir is more than sexy, it’s a spiritual rebellion. It’s a radical act of coming home to yourself.
In a world that teaches women to shrink, hide, conform, and constantly question our worth, standing in your skin, unfiltered, unashamed, and fully present, is nothing short of revolutionary.
One time for the birthday chick, Go ahead if it's your birthday chick- Birthday Boudoir- Nine19 Photography Raleigh NC
Birthdays are always my favorite! I unapologetically force my friends to celebrate me for the entire month of August, because IM WORTH IT, okaaaay! Well, you’re worth it too! I love it when clients come to me to celebrate their bdays with a boudoir session! We party together and capture some amazing shots!
Common Love Isn't For Us, We Created Something Phenomenal Don't You Agree?- Birthday Boudoir- Nine19 Photography Raleigh NC
Another strong, kind, and brilliant client! These women come into my studio in Downtown Raleigh NC, knowing their self-worth and inspiring the shit out of me and this woman was no different! Seeing how much she loves herself was just so uplifting! Its also amazing that she didn’t take herself too seriously and enjoyed every moment of her session! We had such a great time, laughing, playing with different looks, and killing the sexiest of poses!